feel disappointed because of her?

do u ever feel disappointed because u keep telling your fd no, but she/he insist to do that??

u kno the bad consequences of that thing. u kno the bad influences that he/she may get from that thing. But no matter how hard you tell them, no matter how many times you try to confront them. They will just ignore you, or sometime, your relationship will become worse?

If you have ever experienced that, you know how sad, how disappointing, how heart-broken it is.

BUT

Our job is to confront with love; our job is to tell them thats bad, thats not beneficial. This is all we can do.

The part of transforming other's heart, the part where someone's life is changed, is totally belong to GOD. He will touch their heart in his own way.

DON'T think that, no matter what you do, it wont make a change. Thats totally wrong. It is because GOD will use you, will use your confront, your mouth to transform someone's life, or just by your little action.

SO, pls. don't be sad or disappointed because they didn't listen you. And DON'T be angry with GOD, why he hasn't change their life. HE has his own timing, and you will never know.

what we can do now, is really pray for that person, pray for open heart, pray for open ear. So when u confront them, GOD will work through your words and you to change their life!!

REMEMBER: our job is to tell the truth, GOD's job is to transform someone's heart and life.